A guide to holiday gifts that don’t suck (or do kinda suck but what doesn’t suck)
Alternate title: pandemic presents, though honestly at this point, every day is a gift.
Alternate alternate title: make all of the quarantine shopping I’ve wasted time on this year work in your favor.
As always, I make 0% profit on anything listed on this blog and am probably somehow spending money by writing it.
A fucking face mask
Yeah you probably have a million face masks, but if you’ve been wearing the same cloth face masks since they started telling you to wear cloth face masks, science says you probably need to replace them.
I’ve been sewing hella masks for family, friends, and unsheltered folx this pandemic.
Here’s what I’ve learned so far:
- Cut up t-shirt strips make great ties if you want to save time and money or can’t find elastic
- Save the plastic coated wires that come around the cords of new electronic devices to sew into the bridge of the nose
- Learn how to sew curves.
Make a mask: Need a pattern? Here’s a foldy mask pattern for adults. Here’s a foldy mask pattern for kids. Here’s a form-fitting mask pattern that’s super customizable.
Buy a mask: Every retailer on the face of the planet has masks!! But I like this reminder to just stay alive, ‘cuz I am going to make it through this year if it kills me. It truly is a sick, sad world, and good health is GOLD.
Also, Public Goods has KN95s, which a doctor at my job says is basically an N95 but made in China so the FDA can’t claim that they work (or something like that).
Homemade stuff
Here are some simple gifts that the few friends I have left may be receiving:
- Sriracha salt
- Quilted slippers (much easier and faster than knitting slippers)
- DIY heating pads
- Felt stick unicorn
- Easy sachiko (cool stitching style with origins in Japan)
- Scrappy potholders
- Easy blanket sweater
- Coffee scrub
- Crocheted fruit bat
- Easy yarn-wrapped wall decor
Support an artist
- Dinosaur mugs!
- Strange and lovely things
- Sweet and lovely things
- Cute and weird mugs, prints, fabric, and more
- Prints of kitschy hotel rooms
- Painterly portraits on clay
- Gorgeous functional pottery
- Real life drawn on clay
- Possums + tMG 4eva
- Is their favorite tattoo artist doing prints or clothing? Buy that!
Vintage things I love but did not buy
- Dad mug
- 70s floral lunchbox
- It’s a globe, it’s a clock, it’s a combination globe clock
- Lobster brooch
- Beautiful and expensive gold charm
- Cast iron German shepherd
- Sunny yellow sunnies
- Owl book ends
- Siamese cat salt and pepper shakers
- Eifel Tower pocket knife
Measurement conversion magnets
Are we even in a pandemic if you’re not spending hella time in the kitchen?? Do you know how many cups are in a quart? How many pints are in a gallon? How many pints are in a quart? How many quarts are in a gallon?
How course you don’t! The American measurement system is stupid. Get yourself and your loved ones a handy dandy conversion chart for your fridge.
Mine have a German Shepherd on them.
Period underwear
That shit is expensive! There’s nothing fun about periods (actually, it is kinda fun to recreate Psycho in the shower pouring out your menstrual cup) but it’s nice to have backup.
I love my pair of Thinx (the hip hugger) and am gonna invest in more. Good Housekeeping has recs but for the love of god, don’t shop Amazon. (And if you must, use AmazonSmile to support your favorite nonprofit.)
Rechargable hand warmers
Socialize inside and you might die. Stay inside alone all winter and you will cry.
I hate being cold and my hands are always cold. Rechargeable hand warmers to the rescue! I can’t find the ones I bought from REI on their site any more so here’s a link to some that Bustle recommends.
A bidet
Confession: I’ve never used a bidet. I did accidentally turn one on at a dude’s house thinking it was the flusher, but it didn’t land anywhere near my butt, as I was not sitting on the toilet at the time.
But we all remember the Great TP Shortage of March and clench our buttholes a little tighter.
So here’s a list of bidets to consider.
And, come to think of it, I have peed in a Toto, which was a warm and lovely experience.
Actually, now that we’re on the subject, I would definitely like this gold-flecked toilet seat, which serves absolutely no purpose in a pandemic other than to look good.
And if someone just gave me a toilet paper bouquet, or heck just an 18-pack with a bow on it, I wouldn’t complain.
An AED
No this is not a joke.
I don’t miss much about going into the office each day but I do miss knowing where the AED (automated external defibrillator) is on every floor in case someone goes into cardiac arrest. You can do CPR on someone until you’re blue in the face (or, more likely, they’re blue in the face… cuz they’re dead) but an AED is the only thing that can restart a stopped heart.
First aid, bitches!!
Even refurbished AEDs are expensive but can you put a price on life??
The only rain jacket that isn’t hideous
The most fashionable people I know in Seattle stay dry the Swedish way: with meatballs.
Just kidding: in Stutterheim.
Beware: these raincoats run really large. And probably by the time I know about something, they’re going out of style. But whatever.
A fake fur blanket
I would like to wrap myself in fake fur forever thank you.
Nothing but flowers
So, yes, because I am basic, I have gotten into plants this year!! It helps that I’m home all the time and actually remember to water them.
If you don’t have a green thumb, you can still have a flower finger with a birth (or favorite) flower ring. I’m born in March but daffodils are stupid so August it is.
Do you love flowers so much you could squish them? It will be Spring again soon and your loved ones probably need a new hobby: I took so many photos of flowers this spring that my camera roll looks like the Midsommar poster. (Haven’t seen that movie but it looks really romantic and fun!!)
Or go wild(flowers) with a flower wall for your Zoom calls, because regular walls are boring! Which brings us into our next category…
Home office make-over
We’re going to be working from home forever, so make your home office count
Tech has a harsh vibe, so I keep my desk retro-friendly with a pastel pink wireless keyboard, bluetooth speaker disguised as an old radio, and mod laptop sleeve, which are things I love so much I’m sure your loved ones will too!
Pickle Pipe
No, not talking about the green sort of pickle pipe, but it’s cool if that’s your jam. I’m talking FERMENTATION, BABY!! Silicone airlocks for making your own sauerkraut and kimchi in mason jars.
Cuz are you even quarantining if you haven’t pickled anything? Or poisoned yourself and/or roommate with botulism?? Jk, that’s what this tool is for!
Less terrible towels
Honestly, most bath towels make me sad. Like, no matter how new or plush plain cotton terry towels are, they all just look like ratty dude dorm towels.
So I bought myself some pretty patterned bath towels from Anthropologie, which was an instant showertime boost. Buuuuut Anthro isn’t exactly the most ethical store.
Made Trade has some pretty towels. Coyuchi has some that are fine. This shop on Etsy says their towels are ethically made.
They just don’t make them like they used to.
Also, pro-tip, Society 6 has nice patterns but I’ve fallen for their hand towels in the past and won’t do it again; they look and feel cheap. It’s not libel if it’s an opinion and/or it’s the truth. “Your honor, the defense presents this cheap towel that looked promising but is actually stupid.” I recommended something else from your store in this post, leave me alone!!
A Goblincore Christmas
If you’re less elf on a shelf and more troll in a hole, here’s some shiny nature cozy weirdness for your tree. Or for your walls and knobs if you’re a Scrooge like me.
- Possum, with or without Santa hat
- Bone terrarium
- Insect taxidermy (another DIY)
- Frog
- Mushroom
- Frog on a mushroom
- Snail child
- Agate
- Snail on agate
- Possum on agate
For your big-ass dog
Look, there are so many cute clothing options for small to large dogs out there.
It’s hard to find clothes that fit a 95-lb dog, but an LL Bean XL sweater is actually an XL (according to my sample size of one). Same goes for this Land’s End jacket that I think makes him look like a wealthy polar explorer or a software developer when Seattle dips below 50 degrees.
My pup would honestly be happy with a couple of dirty tennis balls, but he asked Grandma for a life jacket because safety first.
My friend’s dog came with a Fi Smart Collar and GPS to track every movement like a Canine Big Brother and they’re super happy with it.
And secretly Barry wants a Stutterheim rain jacket. (I mean, don’t we all?) Hopefully the dog sizing skews as large as their people sizing.